Tuesday, December 11, 2007

posting everyday

Well posting everyday for me at the moment is impossiable due to all the Christmas things that are happening in our area

Last week I had 2 break up dinners to attend this week I have 3 breakups to attend

I also have to fit my hpuse duties into all my work load and going out well it's not working very well I have got the dishes done and the washing done most days and thats about it for now

All I can say is bring on the holidays

Monday, December 03, 2007

Do you fly on wings alone

Do you fly on wings alone when a new door opens

If a new door opened up would you say no or yes ?

In Feb 2007 we had new doors open right up in front of us , I was working 3 jobs and it was very hard to juggle all my daily things around my 2 casual jobs but I was going to hang on tight for the ride.

We moved into our own home and that meant so much to me because I have lived in other peoples homes for so long I can now do what I want in the garden and around the house without answering to anyone esle.

We packed up knowing that I was going to be the main income earner and that was a bit scary because I wasn't making millions still not but we have survied . My husband got work and has never been out of work and people ring wanting him to do this or that but today he started a new job

We completely stepped out on our own and for what to live a more relaxing lifstyle and spend time with our 3 teens who all still need us in one way or another

Sometimes stepping out of your comfort zone is a huge thing to do but it is also awersome when things fall into place for you . We have never gone with out and when things got tuff we both got extra work . We where being looked after

In saying we gave up our jobs you have to understand my husband had done his for 28 years and I had worked alone side him for 19 years we are now entering a different part of our life where we can sit back and enjoy the world going by around us , everytime I see a bird soar through the sky I think to myself yep thats what we did we flew on wings alone and it has been great

Sunday, December 02, 2007


no one likes cleaning when the sun is out

but once the cleaning is done don't you feel great

yep but it also makes you feel very tired as well

So it must be good for your soul cleaning because it makes you feel great and tired

Okay I have been really busy helping my husband clean his shed tonight and some of teh garden ready for Christmas not really knowing what we where all doing , we had a BBQ tea to finish off a great day by all and a wine or 2 to unwind

now I'm off to bed to be ready for tomorrows day

Saturday, December 01, 2007

go by your feelings

This is a late post tonight but if you read on you'll find out why

people are good at saying you shouldn't let your kids do that or be friends with them etc you get my drift , I some times get sick of people saying things like that to me but I guess it's human nature

From the word go when you have your first born others are telling you what to do , I try not to because I know to well how much it annoyed me when I was a mum for the very first time

I spend most of the day at Christmas Festivls with my 2 boys , when we came home we did our own thing and the middle boy went to work for a couple of hours.

I had 1 boy come and ask can I use your workshop ~ yep no problem ~ my youngest went out with him a friend from his school

sitting putting up my Christmas tree with my son a knock came looking for my boy who was out working ~ sorry he's working ~

around the corner came hey mum can I use the workshed yep I said it wasn't my son but a friend of my son who calls me his 2nd mum so I have 4 sons now

People say don't encourage them round they aren't the best of kids ~ well the bare fact is my son is one of those kids who are normal teenagers and I go by my feelings

I would perfer to help them and say yes , than have them sneak in and use things when we aren't here , ohh how bad are they their not they always ask and we treat them with respect

My afternoon was sitting on the back door step speaking to 9 teens boys and girls who hang out together

I opened my door up to my sons friends any time of the day because you never know when 1 of them may really need your help

Next time when some one ask's for help are you to proud to help or are you willing to help

If we all helped 1 person tomorrow wouldn't that make a better world for all of us